Sexual correctness is a fundamental failure of journalism, and not just in the moralistic right-wing end of the press. I can’t remember the last time I saw an informed discussion of porn in a mainstream news publication. Many of those touted as ‘sexperts’ simply aren’t; a situation not helped by the craven attitude of bodies like the British Psychological Society. Features on alternative sexual choices, lifestyles or fetishes invariably resort to cheap smirks at the expense of its subjects; while journalists interviewing figures in the adult entertainment industry seem compelled to demand that they justify their ‘aberrant’ behaviour.
We deserve better. We deserve editors and journalists who have some vague understanding of sex and sexual health, and can report it in a grown-up way. We deserve respite from the barrage of messages declaring that those whose tastes sit outside a narrowing mainstream are deviant; to be smirked at, stared at, or feared. I’m not convinced it’s good for our collective sexual health if young men are brought up with the implied message that only certain types, shapes and even colours of women are socially acceptable to call ‘sexy’. Aside from anything else, it’s just really, really boring.
MJ Robbins, “Sexual Correctness Gone Mad,” The Guardian
MJ Robbins, who is to me a newly minted hero in my personal pantheon, writing in The Guardian. The way sex and sexuality are discussed in much of the mainstream media is so incredibly ignorant that it amounts to abstinence education for adults; not only do you not learn anything from it, you might be stupider when you’re done.
Superstition. Don’t let the sub fuck you. She goes down on you, not the other way around.
